To say modern dating is tough may be an understatement, and while dating apps and sites are supposed to make the process easier, for many, technology is often the leading culprit in miscommunications, hurt feelings, and unwarranted expectations.
Many dating experts and psychologists say that while having lots of choices can help you choose someone who fits your wants and needs, it can also have the opposite effect if you want to eventually settle into a relationship.
Esther Boykin, a licensed love and relationship therapist says modern dating is complicated, too: Tnis of all ages find themselves with more questions than answers when it comes to how to date.
I don't think it had to be something complicated but I see clients and friends definitely struggle. The downside of more options to meet and connect means that there are more opportunities for miscommunication and misunderstandings.
Here, real singles share what they dislike the most about modern dating.
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It's like the way we date has become a necessary evil.